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wholockiansintothetardis asked: DIO2

I did 2 earlier, but: 

D: Have you ever changed for someone, if yes, how?  
My first relationship helped me mature greatly and become more extroverted, and I will forever appreciate that.   

I: What’s the most important part of a relationship?  
Being able to communicate with each other. People get all pissed when they discover that communication is how to solve aaaaall your interpersonal problems but it’s true.  You gotta be okay with letting your guard down with your partner and having your partner be vulnerable with you.  

O: Do you believe in the phrase, “Age is just a number?” Why or why not?
I feel like people should be in or near the same “stage” of life as the other person.  Like I get weirded out a little bit if someone is applying to colleges and their partner has already graduated college and has a steady job.  That’s pretty different. This usually falls under an “age” system too but not necessarily.  I feel like age isn’t as important as you get older and the stages become less pronounced.  But when you’re young, yeah, you should probably be dating someone around your age.  Otherwise there’s all kinds of weird power dynamics too.  But hey I don’t care do what who you want, this is just something that I know works for me.